Bad Day

Joined : 27 Mar 2007 Posts : 808 Localisation : Surrey

As it's Father's Day I thought I'd push the boat out a wee bit for my pa, so I invited my mum, sister and pa round for afternoon tea.

Charlotte was a nightmare.

She was refusing to do even the smallest thing, she was (mildly) abusive to me and very aggressive and violent.

This is not terribly new, but what IS different is that twice she walked up to me whilst I was in another part of the house (my downstairs is a bit open plan, and I have no door to my kitchen) and aggressively hit me.

This has never happened before and I was wondering if anyone else had experienced this? I KNOW why it's happened (she is provoking me to be predictable as she can't cope with the change of routine) but it really upset me. Does anyone else suffer from this? I can't live everyday the same or the only person outside of school that C would see is me and that aint healthy!

Subject: Re: Bad Day 17/6/2007, 8:17 pm

Aww hun have some of these hugging

I too get that when T doesnt cope with whatever is happening at the time or when his routine has changed without his blessing! Like u i too feel the strains about we cant live like that and yet our kids find it so hard to cope with Sad

Thats life and things can happen and change but our kids cant cope with it at their young age, i have been told that they can/maybe get better with age and with more understanding but some never cope with it and how will our kids cope in the future? who knows!

I do understand what ur going thru tho hun and try 2 have a relaxing evening and a drink wine

to wind down hug

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Age : 35 Joined : 12 Mar 2007 Posts : 769

Just want to send some hugging

Joined : 12 Mar 2007 Posts : 896 Localisation : East Anglia

Bless you both . Sending lots of hugs. xx hugging

Subject: Re: Bad Day 18/6/2007, 3:53 pm

Ah, poor you. Have an 'ug from moi, even though it's a long way from here to Surrey. Smile

Joined : 27 Mar 2007 Posts : 808 Localisation : Surrey

I can feel the lurve!! lol!

Honestly, thanks to y'all.

It's so nice to be able to talk without all the explanations.

We've had (so far) two lovely days together and (apart from falling out of bed and getting a fat lip Shocked

) Charlotte has been a little honey.

There, I've done it now...... Laughing

Subject: Re: Bad Day 19/6/2007, 4:01 pm

Aww bless her, how we love the lovely days! I could eat T when we have them days, i dont think he would want me to gobble him up tho! Laughing

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